The Rebecoming Programme

Coming Home to Yourself

A 6-Month Programme giving you the time and space to move through the complete Rebecoming process.

Find Your True Path

This is for when you sense you’ve been living from the surface for too long, operating from the self you built just to get through life. It’s the version of you that copes, performs, manages, and gets things done. The one who learned, a long time ago, how to be acceptable and useful.

While this coping mechanism has worked in its own way and gotten you to where you are today, it isn’t really you. Underneath those protective layers, quietly waiting, is your deeper, authentic self. It is the part of you that existed before the disappointments, compromises, and accumulated expectations of life. The part you’ve been catching glimpses of lately, especially when you’re alone.

This programme is for anyone who is ready to stop living from that exhausting surface and finally find their way back to their own true path.

Is this right for you?

The Rebecoming retreat IS right for you if:

You feel ordinary support is no longer enough, and you want to create a different kind of space. This is for when you are ready to pause the daily routine and dedicate real time to going beneath the surface.

You are new to this work, yet ready for the complete journey home, with the time and space to let it truly sink in.

You’ve already completed Make It Make Sense, and now you’re ready for the next step: to move through the full process of deep healing and reconnecting with who you truly are.

You’ve already experienced our Head-to-Heart Healing sessions, and now you’re ready to take that next step further to truly come home to yourself.

The Rebecoming retreat IS not right for you if:

You are currently in a mental health crisis. Please know that this isn’t the right environment for you right now. While this work is deeply supportive, it isn’t crisis care, and your safety has to come first. Please reach out to a medical professional or a dedicated crisis service before considering a retreat.

**During the 6 months we will guide you through the Rebecoming journey:**

Recognising what you’ve been carrying: We’ll make sense of what has been weighing you down, where it came from, and why it has stayed with you.

Healing what’s been hurting: This is the head-to-heart work of finally feeling, releasing, and letting go of that weight for good.

Reconnecting with who you really are: A quiet, profound homecoming to the person you have always been beneath it all.

What this is

This is the deeper, longer journey of coming home to who you’ve always been underneath it all.

Over the course of six months, you will walk this path in a small, close-knit group, with us guiding you every single step of the way. The programme consists of twelve sessions in total, meeting once a fortnight to create a steady, sustainable pace for your transformation.

Your journey is intentionally balanced between two powerful types of work: six learning sessions that break down the nine blocks that typically keep people stuck, and six dedicated Head-to-Heart Healing sessions in which the emotional weight you’ve been carrying is actually released.

What You Will Get From It

The real you, returned.

Not a better version. Not an improved version. The one who was already there underneath, before life asked you to be someone else. The one whose gifts flow rather than strain. Whose values feel like a compass rather than a debate.

You’ll feel lighter, freer, and more in charge of your own life than you have in years. The decisions you make are your decisions, taken for your own reasons, rather than shaped by what other people expect or need from you. You’ll live as the person you actually are, rather than the one you learned to be.

We invite you to come and join us. For quiet time. For a space to speak your truth. For the journey back to who you’ve always been.

THE DETAILS:

What You’ll Leave With:

You’ll complete this 6-month programme feeling as if you’ve finally come home to yourself. This isn’t because every problem in your life is suddenly resolved, but because the heavy patterns you arrived with have truly shifted, and you’ve spent half a year remembering exactly who you are underneath it all.

You will feel lighter, clearer, and deeply anchored in your true self. You will carry away new tools, a profound understanding of your inner world, and a sustainable way of knowing yourself that endures.

You will have experienced six months of being fully present with yourself. This kind of sustained presence and self-connection creates a foundation for your everyday life that is worth more than most people realise, until they finally feel it for themselves.

2-hour programme introduction session
6 learning sessions in a small group
6 Personal Head-to-Heart Healing sessions with Steve and Cilla
2 weeks between sessions
£2,500 – 10% discount for payment in full upfront
Payment plans available

Who Steve and Cilla Are:

Steve Roche and Cilla Hall are the co-founders of Head, Heart & Soul and the co-authors of Rebecoming, which outlines the method on which this work is built.

Steve was an original director of Kooth, the LSE-listed digital mental health provider.
Cilla brings a long background in guiding people through personal change and the emotional attunement this work depends on.

What sets them apart in this field is that they’ve walked the same ground themselves. The method is the work they’ve done on their own lives, refined over the years into what they now offer to others.

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Those Who Have Done The Work:

“For most of my life, I carried deep and painful emotional wounds from being taken advantage of. I’d become the person who couldn’t say no, who gave until there was nothing left. I was exhausted from years of people-pleasing and had lost all sense of who I was beyond what I could do for others. The transformation has been profound. I’m now fiercely self-reliant in the healthiest way. I’ve found the courage to say no without guilt, to choose where I put my energy. For the first time, I’m living life on my own terms.”

— Santhuru Murugamoorthy

“I have learned a lot about myself through this, which will help mould my future self. It was wonderful and much-needed. Cilla and Steve could not do enough. It was a lovely experience.”

— Suzanne Macaree

“I had spent most of my childhood surviving trauma, and taking that into my adult life meant navigating the world in the only way I knew how. By the time I reached out for support, I was exhausted from constantly questioning myself. Since completing the process, something within me has shifted. I feel lighter, clearer, and more grounded in who I am. I am beginning to understand myself with compassion rather than criticism. I feel more confident setting boundaries, trusting my instincts, and recognising my worth.”

— Michelle Dunbar

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