IT’S TIME TO BE REAL

You’re Not Broken. You’re Disconnected.

Underneath the conditioning, the emotional baggage, and the years of pretending to be someone you’re not — the real you is still there. Waiting.

We don’t fix people. We help you to reconnect to the real you.

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The Uncomfortable Truth

There is a reason you feel stuck in life, and it is not what you think.

What is really holding you back is not what you lack. It is what you are carrying.You were not born feeling this way. But then life happened. Hurt added a layer. Disappointment added another. Other people’s opinions, fears, and old wounds — each one covered up a bit more of who you really are.

You’ve probably tried to fix this before. The affirmations, the self-help books, the retreats that felt great for a week and then faded. Maybe even therapy that helped you understand the problem but didn’t shift it. Because fixing does not work. What works is to reconnect with who you truly are.

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 What We Do Differently

We’ve identified nine invisible blocks that keep most people stuck. They are not character flaws. They are layers — survival strategies you developed over a lifetime that are no longer serving you.

Using our Head-to-Heart Healing™ methodology — which draws on time-tested ancient practices adapted for real modern life — we help you move emotional wounds and conditioning out of your head and into your heart, where they can actually be released.

This isn’t a spa day. It’s honest, sometimes uncomfortable, always supportive inner work. We ask you to face what you’ve been avoiding — and then we help you to release it.


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OUR BOOK

“Rebecoming” is the roadmap. It explains the nine blocks, the Head-to-Heart Healing™ process, and the journey back to yourself. It is a good place to start if you want to understand the work before you experience it.

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Steve Roche &

Cilla Hall

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This is not a lecture. You will experience a big shift.
Over 1.5 days, you will be guided through the full Head-to-Heart Healing™ process — the same methodology we use in all our work. You won’t just learn about the nine blocks. You’ll begin to feel them shift.
This workshop is held in person in London. It’s designed to be intensive enough to create real movement, with enough time to work through what comes up.


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This retreat is for those who want to step away from the noise of daily life and fully immerse themselves in the work. No distractions. No responsibilities pulling at you. Just time and space to go deep.


This work is for you if:

You are tired of understanding your problems without actually shifting them

You have a quiet sense that the life you’re living isn’t fully yours

You are willing to feel uncomfortable in order to get free

You want the truth more than you want reassurance, even if its heavy

You are sick of your own secrets

You feel a quiet urgency to change

You are willing to be a beginner again

This work is NOT for you if:

You are looking for a quick fix 

You want someone to tell you everything’s fine

You are not ready to take responsibility for your own healing

You want a hack to feel better quickly

You want someone to tell you you’re a victim

You are looking for a feel-good answer

You need to be right more than you need to be free

The real you hasn’t gone anywhere. They’re just waiting for you to stop performing and start listening.” — Steve Roche & Cilla Hall

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The Rebecoming Circle online community launches March 2026 — a space for those walking this path together.

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